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     CHILD AND FAMILY TENNESSEE

 

 

 

                      A Safety Net of Services for Families

 

Founding Families 2009 Honorees

 

Foster Care Family

Sarita Stokes

Sarita Stokes was introduced to Child & Family Tennessee’s Johnson Group Home (JGH) as a volunteer.  She had a strong desire to work with young women and is fluent in sign language.  At that time, there was a hearing impaired girl (we’ll call her “Jan”) living at JGH, so it was a perfect fit.  Sarita spent a significant amount of time volunteering at JGH, helping to cook, clean, interact with the young women, interpreting for “Jan” and supporting all the youth.    The impact on “Jan’s” life was nothing short of heroic.  Try to imagine living with others and not being able to communicate — not easy, is it?  But Sarita erased the language barrier and built a strong bond with this young lady. 

 

When “Jan” was ready to leave the group home, a foster care family was needed.  Again, Sarita stepped forward, took the required classes to become a foster parent and welcomed “Jan” into her home.  Sarita has maintained her volunteer efforts at JGH and has gone on to foster two more adolescent females from there.  Sarita has positively impacted not only everyone at Johnson’s Group Home but everyone she encounters. 

We applaud Sarita Stokes for her tremendous effort and commitment to helping young women in need.

 

Community Leadership Family

Peyton T. Hairston, Jr. Family

Peyton T. Hairston, Jr. is the TVA Senior Vice President of Corporate Responsibility and Diversity.  He is also the TVA Ombudsman and its Chief Ethics and Compliance Officer.  Peyton has held other positions with TVA since joining the organization in May 1993. 

 

Peyton serves on the Boards of Directors for Mercy Health Partners, Knoxville Tourism and Sports Corporation and Knoxville Chamber Partnership.  He is the Chair of the Board of the Knoxville Area Urban League and Vice-Chair of the Board of the East Tennessee Foundation.  Peyton earned his bachelor’s degree from North Carolina State University and his law degree from the Wake Forest University School of Law.

 

Peyton and Tanya J. Hairston, both natives of Winston-Salem, North Carolina, have been married for nearly 29 years.  Tanya is a graduate of North Carolina A&T State University and has worked in public education.  For the past ten years, she has owned and operated WindowScapes, Inc., which fabricates window treatments and other soft home furnishings.  Tanya has served as a volunteer for Second Harvest and Webb School of Knoxville.

 

Tanya and Peyton have two children, Ashley and Peyton III.  Ashley is a graduate of Washington University in St. Louis, and she is currently a graphic designer with Morris Creative Group.  She will begin graduate school at the School of the Art Institute of Chicago this fall.  Ashley, along with her father, is a member of St. John’s Lutheran Church and she is a mentor in the Circles of Support program through the Ten Year Plan to End Chronic Homelessness.  Peyton III will graduate from Elon University in May 2009.  As a student, Peyton has volunteered with Habitat for Humanity and supported other charitable efforts.  He is also a member of the Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity.

 

We commend this family for their service to the community and for passing the tradition along to the next generation.

 

Inspirational Family

Phil Babelay and the Clear Springs Baptist Church

Mr. Phil Babelay is known by the youth served by Child & Family Tennessee as “Mr. Phil”. “Mr. Phil” is a member and representative of the Clear Springs Baptist Church, and this “church family” has supported his volunteer efforts over the many years that he has tirelessly dedicated his time. In addition, the membership of Clear Springs Baptist Church ensures that our youth can fully participate in the generosity of the holiday season each year by providing gift cards, with which the youth can buy gifts for their loved ones. 

“Mr. Phil” is for Child & Family Tennessee the “face” of the Clear Springs Baptist Church family. His volunteer work has given a unique and irreplaceable blessing to the youth served by Child & Family Tennessee, in that he has been consistent for more than fifteen years with his commitment of time and service.  Consistency may be the most valuable contribution a volunteer working with our youth can make. Many of the youth in our programs have been hurt by the adults in their lives who have disappointed, abandoned, or even harmed them. Due to “Mr. Phil’s” dedication and discipline, gradually and over time our kids have been able to experience a relationship with an adult which is safe and reliable. They thus have learned in an unforgettable way from “Mr. Phil” that not all adults are untrustworthy.

“Mr. Phil” freely gives of his time with grace and compassion, and this is the gift that only a volunteer can give. For while our staff cares a great deal about our kids, and works very successfully to help them heal from their trauma, the kids clearly understand that “Mr. Phil” does not receive a paycheck for his time with them, and that makes his efforts all the more special to them.

 

Our kids eagerly anticipate “Mr. Phil’s” visits twice a week. His love and joy shine brightly and he makes himself available when the kids are interested in discussing spiritual matters.  “Mr. Phil” always has a kind word for our hardworking staff as well and this brightens everyone’s day. His caring and helpfulness have made him iHiHian important part of our team.  Over the years, “Mr. Phil” has volunteered at many of Child & Family”s group homes and programs for youth, including most recently Cooper House and the Runaway Shelter..  “Mr. Phil” is a quiet and humble man who would never sing his own praises.  It is fitting that we celebrate the service of love and commitment he has tirelessly given to these youth, the many lives he has touched, and the important contributions he has made to the mission of Child & Family Tennessee through the years. Thank you, “Mr. Phil”!

 

Who do you know that should be nominated?  Click here to enter their story into consideration for the 2010 Founding Families Awards.